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Chapter 7
"The Fallen"
Chapter 7 memorializes soldiers who have died in combat in Iraq and Afghanistan through a series of posts from fellow soldiers, family members, and Burden’s own account of losing his friend. Through these entries, readers get a sense of how individuals search for evidence of details of their loved ones’ deaths through a multitude of sources, including final letters written by the soldiers, visits from those who worked with the deceased soldiers, new reports, and other blogs detailing combat operations. One post highlights a real life instance of kairos. A wife writes about the need to end her grieving over the loss of her husband. In recalling a visit to her deceased husband’s Company drill, she states,
Two wise men…said something to me that weekend that planted a seed. They mentioned that though Erik’s death is a part of my life it does not define it. I’m sure some of you have said this in those exact words or slight variations, but I was not ready at the time. And quite honestly, I believe only a soldier who was there with Erik could have said it in a way that could penetrate my thick Scottish skull. (p. 227).
The chapter concludes with an entry of substantial length narrating a Marine Lieutenant Colonel’s journey from Baghdad to Wyoming as he escorted the remains of a soldier he had never met to their (mutual) hometown.